Valid naman po feelings nyo, and understandable ang mood nyo with your pregnancy/ post-partum hormones and recent loss. However, although we all have the right to feel whatever we want, we don't have the right to express it however we want.
For ex, if it's the other way around na si hubby nyo yung sobrang pagod, stressed at pressured from work, it doesn't make it right kung pagdating nya sa bahay ay iritable sya at tayo yung pagbubuntunan nya ng stress nya. How can you be so sure na hindi rin sya depressed sa pagkawala ng anak nyo?
So it's the same for us. Although we have uncontrollable emotions due to our irregular hormones, we should still be mindful of our actions. Kung alam nating unreasonable yung naging reaction natin at hindi naman talaga kasalanan ng iba, we should at least be humble enough, accept our mistakes and ask forgiveness if needed.
I'm sorry po for your loss... hugs...
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