Why does my 4 month baby cries (at times)when I make him to sleep?

But when my hubby n helper does it he’s less fussy.. so whenever I carried him n he’s crying, my hubby will ask me to pass to him or pass to my helper cuz he can’t hear baby cries for long. I felt disappointed with my hubby and upset over this it seems like my baby hates me

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It's completely normal for babies to cry for various reasons, even when being put to sleep. Babies might cry more with certain caregivers simply because they have different ways of soothing them. It's important to remember that your baby's reactions are not a reflection of how they feel about you as a mother. One possible reason your baby may cry more with you could be due to the unique bond and sense of security they feel with you. This can sometimes result in them feeling more comfortable expressing their emotions, including crying, in your presence. It's common for babies to be more easily soothed by different people, and it doesn't mean your baby hates you. Try different soothing techniques and observe what works best for your baby. You can also involve your husband and helper in understanding and responding to your baby's needs. Communication with your husband about how you're feeling is essential. Expressing your concerns and discussing how to work together as a team in caring for your baby can help strengthen your bond as a family. Remember, every baby is unique, and parenting challenges are part of the journey. Don't be too hard on yourself, and seek support from other parents or professionals if needed. Your love and care for your baby shine through, no matter what challenges you may face. https://invl.io/cll6she

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