is it selfish if I want to find a partner when I’m pregnant?

broke off with my ex very recently and I’ve been crying every single day. He claims to want the child but he isn’t doing anything about it. He doesn’t want to take care of me or do anything related to me & my baby. is it selfish of me to move on & find someone who can love me and my child

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Definitely not selfish, but in the mean time, maybe take a break first? Afterall you won’t know how the other party is gonna treat your kid and also, you’ll be very very busy when baby is out that you probably won’t have the time to really bother about your partner (which won’t help the situation and may even scare off the other party if you’re still in the honeymoon phase). When you’ve settled down, of course go ahead if you find someone that loves your child like his own and also you. 😊 Everyone deserves to find their own happiness regardless.

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