Rant

My boyfriend left me, after he gave me the choice of abortion. I chose to kept the baby, despite my family member’s disprovals. I mean on the surface they kept saying they don’t mind and stuff but from time to time they would say why am I so stupid to sleep with a jerk who is so irresponsible. And my family isn’t very well to do. My parents owe a shit ton of credit card bills, my dad has a mistress outside, my underage younger brother is always smoking and getting into fights. I’m currently 8 months pregnant. And it’s too late for an abortion. But I am not confident in bringing my baby into this horrible world.... to stay with my horrible family. But I know I can’t bear to give her away.

20 Replies
undefined profile icon
Write a reply
VIP Member

Hi... I would suggest that you seek child support and maintenance from that ‘jerk’. Go to the lawyer and find out your rights and how to get child support for your baby. Take care

6y ago

will do so. Thank you.

It will not be easy. Since you hve alrd make that decision, safe that little life. Stay strong, get help n take care of yourself too. Cheers

6y ago

Thank you. Appreciate your kind words

Seek legal help. Or find mp or social services.. I believe they will help you by seeking legal services for you. Stay strong for baby!!

6y ago

Will do! Appreciate it.

It will not be easy for you to suffer alone. But you must be strong for the sake for your baby.

VIP Member

Be strong, mama! Seek help if you have to. The mummy community is here for you. :)

Super Mum

You can seek help from social worker with regards to financial issues. Stay strong.

6y ago

Thank you for your input! Thank you! Will do so for myself and the baby

U can put your baby up for adoption.

VIP Member

Be brave for the baby.

Hang in there

6y ago

Thank you

Hi, First of all please be strong as it is very much required. I would suggest it is time to move on from this experience and right now just focus on yourself and the baby. Things will be fine with time. Please also seek child support from you ex boyfriend as he has equal role to play in this, even if doesn't want to be a part of it

Read more
6y ago

Thanks. Appreciate it.