in laws.

Anyone of you here that do not have a close relationship with in laws? No matter how hard you try to be nice to them, be positive with them, it will always turn out the other way round? They took my toddler ystd to sleepover at their place and they brought her out until late at night 1am which I have never done before bcs my toddler has a routine for her bed time etc so going oit until that late is never for her. My husband called them not once but alot of times and they didnt pick up. Their last seen on whatsapp was recently right after he called them. I know them so well that when they are out anywhere, going back home early is so not them even with small children. I wont say I hate but I never really liked them from the start even bfre we got married.

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Then I would lay ground rules They don’t want to follow they don’t get to bring grandchild out Sorry don’t believe in grandparents who can bring lo out til so late and guilt trip them

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5y ago

Mil always like to play victim. Mine oso did tat before. And now she even say negative thgs to my husband behind my back. Bottomline is the child is yours and you are the one who live with the child. So it is your responsibility to teach and guide your own kid not others. Others got to respect you as the parent. Would they be happy if you as an outsider discipline their kids in front of them? Tell them to put themselves in your shoes. If she can respect your ground rules or the basic manners to you as the mother, i believe you will let her bring the grandchild out.

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