trying to be low profile with pregnancy

anyone else feel like you dont want too many people to know about your pregnancy? I have only told my close friends, close relatives, and colleagues. I dont want to post on social media or have my friends/relatives go tell other mutual acquaintances about my pregnancy. one of my close friend posted on social media congratulating me (I didnt tell her not to post it; my mistake) and it made me so uncomfortable that other mutual friends will now know... my relatives have been lecturing me that pregnancy is a happy news to share, how come I am hiding it like I am ashamed? 😪 I am not ashamed, I just dont like it when people know too much about my life... especially people I'm not close with... 🫤