Kasal bago magka-baby...

In my experience kasi, we got married last august then comes september we got pregnant kaagad. So we treated and viewed our first pregnancy as a gift to our marriage and since you already have the blessing from above, from the law, from the society and from your family, you feel supported and loved and medyo you are already prepared mentally and emotionally to become a mother and to create and build your own family ❤ so i think, it's better to be married first. P.S. we did not spent a lot for our wedding. Just enough to give our families comfort and convenience during our wedding day 😊😊