PAANO KAPAG HINDI MO NA MAHAL ANG ASAWA MO?

Ano ba sayo ang definition ng "LOVE"? karamihan sa'tin, we defined love as the magical feeling we have towards the other person, the romance. Yung kilig factor na sa t'wing nakkikita natin sya, bumibilis ang pinting ng ating puso? Yung parang ayaw na natin sya mawala sa paningin? But you know what, those are just the works of our neurotransmitter. Ang love is not just a feeling but an action; what we can give rather than what we can get. Love is a committment; a decision to love that person every single day for the rest of our lives. The moment you choose to love the person regardless of how you feel, to love the person despite the absence of the kilig - that is is what really love means. Walang external factors jung bakit hindi na natin mahal ang tao. it is our choice! Nakarating na din kami mag asawa sa stage na yan. Yung akala namin, hindi na namin mahal ang isa't-isa, seems we hated each other. But thankfully, hindi kami nag give up. We try resolving what in our lives have caused us to feel that way. What the wounds in our past have caused us to project it in our relatiomship. Hanggang sa na realize namin, the problem is in ourselves. nasa mga sarili namin ang kasagotan sa lahat. We are growing, & our love grows. Ngayon, we're 17 years together, 19 years in love. Every moments is like heaven kapag kasama ko sya. We are not falling in love anymore because WE ARE GROWING IN LOVE.