Poor spacing pregnancy

Hi. Ada tak mommies yang poor spacing pregnant? My firstborn was 7 months by the time i tau i pregnant with my second & currently turning 16 weeks. How does mommy go for every checkup? My husband kerja & everytime ada checkup i need to bring my firstborn sebab takde siapa jaga dia 🥲 quite penat sebab dengan nak checkupnya, dengan nak handle 11 months oldnya. Macam mana mommy punya process waktu checkup eh? Ke u guys ada jugak mintak misi pegangkan anak u sementara u pergi urine/blood test? I rasa penat but nak buat macam mana kan..