Actually why can't mother in laws just STFU and mind their own business. Everything they also want to put their nose in. They have daughters too and they never thought that 1 day their daughters could be treated the same way as they treat other people's daughter. And yes, their daughter in law is someone else's flesh and blood. What gives them the right to "bully"?

My MIL drank my bird nest from my mum when the packaging is not open yet. Offered me instant noodle during my confinement and always comment on how noisy my LO is during the first 6 weeks. Constantly comparing LO with other baby saying that LO is not as fast as I'm not feeding BF. Put my LO in yaolan right after milk and my LO puked so much.. carried my LO with 1 hand and use another hand to get hot water. Sometime I feel that she should stay 5 feet away from my LO.. I can actually feel your pain.