My 3.5m/o LO has been rejecting milk bottles (I have tried a few different types but he only wants direct latch) and doesn't allow anyone to carry him but me. What should I do with the above 2 situations since I am going back to work soon and he will be going to infant care? Should I leave it and hope that things will naturally improve once he starts infant care? TIA

You have to keep trying else she will have difficulties when being 'introduced' in the IFC all over again. I have a friend whose child is in IFC, cannot drink milk from bottle and teachers are too 'busy' to keep trying. Initially my lo had difficulties too, but she loves Comotomo and Tommee Tippee now. She's 12m old and is both DL and bottle fed when I'm not around :)