Super stressful

28 weeks scan baby turn head down. Now(30 weeks) baby buttock is down. I am super stress. My husband is not helping at all. I talked to baby, I ask him to talk to baby too but I got pushed away instead. He was scolding me telling me why must i be stressful. This thing make me super stress and I have been super cranky with everyone including my toddler. I feel guilty. I do love her tho. But i feel like, people around me dont understand what i feel. I want to go for a normal birth so that i can have a peaceful recovery looking at my husband is not a hands on person. I do most of the things eg wake up at night, cooking, clean, bath my toddler. I dont know, I dont know what I am feeling.

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Cheer up fellow mommy! What I notice is husbands/men generally dont express their worry as much. They do still worry deep down don’t always show it though.. Your hb may have your interest at heart when he scolds/never go along with you cos what good does it make if both parents are panicking over something out of both’s control. Indeed he can/should be more tactful since we’ve big emotions during this period, sometimes I just feel men is as helpless as us.. and when they start being the ones nagging or worrying, it’s another type of annoyance 😅

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