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28 weeks scan baby turn head down. Now(30 weeks) baby buttock is down. I am super stress. My husband is not helping at all. I talked to baby, I ask him to talk to baby too but I got pushed away instead. He was scolding me telling me why must i be stressful. This thing make me super stress and I have been super cranky with everyone including my toddler. I feel guilty. I do love her tho. But i feel like, people around me dont understand what i feel. I want to go for a normal birth so that i can have a peaceful recovery looking at my husband is not a hands on person. I do most of the things eg wake up at night, cooking, clean, bath my toddler. I dont know, I dont know what I am feeling.

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Week 33 here and baby is nt head down. Nothing we can do. Just like your case, they can keep turning. Friends all say now head down later also can buttock down nearer to labour. Fr now I try not to think about baby’s position. As for husband, aiya they all like that so you are not alone. My husband also same. They are just not a “worrier”. Doctor say can wait till 36 weeks then see how, so he just diam now and wait till 36 weeks lor. They won’t worry for things in advance or those uncertain. Everyone always say their husband so nice take care of this and that, massage leg etc etc ppl only show off the good things but I feel like this is not common sense to all husbands - and ppl nv publicise only. Recently I forgot to buy some stuff frm ikea so my husband send me go ikea grab everything while he wait in car cus he lazy to park. Still dare to ask me how long more I need….. Lol I can only laugh what to do -_- No expectation is best so won’t be disappointed

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