for me none of the above but since either sa dalawa lng i would rather choose the one who loves me, coz I know in time I would learn to love that person, mas msakit kasi yung mhal mo tpuz khit anu gawin nganga pa din ang ending broken ka, dhil kilala ko sarili ko and I know darating at darating yung time na mamahalin ko din yung tao na yun kya dun na ko sa mhal ako