Naransan kong magtago tago sa prents ng vices dahil sobrang higpit (religious reasons). Naiintindihan ko naman yun, pero ngayun may almost teenager na kmi in span of 3 years, I would like to see my kidsdo what they want in front of me, para mas ma-guide namin sila. I mean, napagusapan namin ng hubby ko na, if they want to drink-then do it with us. If they want to smoke, basta at the right age. Kung mag boyfriend anak ko, mas mainam ipakilala nya sa bahay, kahit sabay sabay pa. What I mean is, mas gusto kong alam ko ang ginagawa nila keysa tonatago tago at mas lalong malapit sa peer pressure pag ganun. Instead magpak higpit, we want them to be open to us, treat us like friends and ao we can guide them how to control and how to be responsible, with whatever vices they like.