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Nicole Goh, Singapore

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School or work ?

My 3 yo kid doesn’t want to go to school after 3 weeks of not going to school due to illness. I was supposed to start working on Monday but because of this I have to turn down the job offer. He is ok to go for half day but not full day. He keeps saying he doesn’t like to go for too long. So my plan now is to let him go back to half day and when he is ready then go for full day again. What will u do if u were me ? Am I doing the right decision ? I am a sahm for 2 years and was excited to get back to work but because of this issue I can’t get back to work again. I’m so stressed and do not know what to do.

I guess our LO are smart. Once they see us caving in, they try this empathy blackmailing again and again.. Hehehe. I was the more relenting one but my hubby taught me, just leave the kids with the teachers once at the sch door, they wil eventually stop once inside and once they see their friends. And it's true. It makes them braver and independent. Until primary and Secondary sch our children didn't have issues like these anymore. They were happy to go to school and meet their peers.

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3yo Play date at Bedok reservoir

Hi mummies, just wondering if any of your toddlers love to catch bugs ? My son love catching insect such as ants , millipede, grasshopper, spider, moth and whatever insect he can find at reservoir. Perhaps, they can have fun and catch together !

Sounds like what our nature Co-op group does! Letting the kids roam around in nature. We meet up up mostly in the west tho!

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I’m so stressed recently as my son keep saying I wanna hit u when he is angry or when I force him to do something. Told him many times that hitting is not right but he still did it even though I have kept his toys away when he hit me. I really don’t know what can I do to correct this behaviour. Does your child always speak opposite things ? For example, when I need to do something but he doesn’t allow me to do it. Then I said ok, we will do nothing then. After awhile he will say ok u can go and do it. It really piss me off.

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Hi, Find the source first. He must have learnt/mirror it from someone.. usually it is someone in the family.

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