Would you bring your first child along with you and hubby on your 2nd babymoon? Any recommended places suitable for expecting couples with a toddler in tow?

I would suggest Clubmed Bintan or Bali. Firstly, I think a beach getaway would be great for you and your husband to have a relaxing holiday. Secondly, ClubMed are babies/children friendly and has activities lined up for the little ones (catered to different age groups) while the parents get to enjoy their holidays. http://www.clubmed.com.sg/cm/home.do?PAYS=362&LANG=AE