My wife is very hot tempered and she like to hit me when she lose her temper. She will dig her fingernail into my skin and sometimes she will slam my head against the wall. I don't want to hit her back. I love her. I believe she loves me too. How can I calm her down. And stop her from abusing me like this.

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Ive been like this to my husband when im pegnant. Small things irritates me alot. What he does is hugging me and telling me to stop and be careful. I might hurt my bump. Then i started to calm down. Dont be impatient do her. Its part of her hormonal imbalance. 😊

Advise to let her realise her problem and consult some professional advice from doc. If all fails, do seek a PPO to protect yourself. As guys, of course we can whack back but don't want to for sure. But she has to recognise that she has a problem and must seek help.

If she is very hot tempered you might want to talk to her in the presence of a trusted friend or family member for mediation and show her the need to seek proffessional help. The more she does it without you putting a stop to it may lead to an escalation.

This is bias... When a man hits a wife.. I will see police..ppo and divorce. Violence in wrong.. Regardless man or woman.. Never resort to hitting back and stood as low as her. Stand up to her now! Seek marriage counselling or file a police report..

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Better calm your self down I do this with my husband every day is just when you're wife pregnant is doesn't easy to control her temper and after all happening I want you to knew she's feel sorry to hurt you I knew is better because I hes that too

3y ago

u mad blud

That's unacceptable. Your wife should not be hitting you. You should talk to some marriage counselors or take her to anger management classes. When she is more calm, tell her that this kind of behavior is not tolerable and she should stop doing it.

i think your wife may need professional help..as she seem to have some psychological issues. pls seek help and go through this difficult time with her as a husband who loved her dearly. some people r too quick to judge...

I feel u bro.. My wife is so temperamental during this pregnancy Im actually not enjoying it, I just can't wait for her to give birth.. I thought expecting is fun and memorable but Hai I get it left right and center

Even me,now im pregnant im very easy to upset im so moody,i always noticed everything what my fiancee doing but all he did is just to understand me buy me anything i want like foods bring me to the place i request so its my mood changed

I don't know how to advice you on this, but I just wanted to give u a virtual hug and say sorry that you are going thru this. Marriage can be very tough and motherhood can be super stressful. I am sorry your wife is taking it out on u.