Whats one thing that Indian parents should change in their parenting style?

I guess, Indian parents need to calm down a bit. We panic a lot over little things. Say, if a kid drops a glass, whole house comes running to what has happened. We need to relax. And we should also learn to say no to other people when they interfere in how we deal with our kids, especially, in joint families. If say, you scold a kid for do not for something wrong he has done, it is your style of making him realise that he has done something bad. And when this is happening, if someone else interferes with their suggestion or preaching to the kid, we should have the guts to say, "No. Please let me handle this. It is between kid and me." Later, you may take the suggestion or listen what the said person wanted to say, but not when you have your one -on-on with the kid.