What is the best words to say to a relative who’s been trying to conceive since 14years back? :( The beloved couple is almost in their early 40's already.

If they do talk abt it or happens in normal sharing then maybe u can recommend a tcm specialist (I went to the famous one at Clementi there). Otherwise maybe want to consider adopt? My aunt n uncle also wait till v late then decided to try for kids and while family was not v supportive as we felt they were getting on in years. They tried everything and spent a lot of money time n effor, eventually adopted a newborn, now the girl in p2 alrdy. Having kids can also mean adopting. Now everyone is happy :)