I would say I'd rather forgive than to not forgive at all hindi lang para sa mga anak namin or sa sarili naming pamilya kundi dahil he's not just somebody else that I can easily dumped. He's my husband, taong pinakasalan ko, ama ng mga anak ko and this is something that is needed to addressed not leave behind, hindi para takbuhan. I've been into this situation, napakahirap but he assures me na he'll changed and he is, day by day he's changing. Kung ito yung weak spot nya, I'm here to help him out, I'll assure him as well na nandito lang ako not to change him but to support him sa gusto niyang pagbabago and that's all for the good. Besides, everything happens for a reason. In my case, I believe God allows that cheating to happen for us to be capable and responsible of our own actions at dahil don mas naging committed kami at mas ginugusto namin na napapasaya yung isa't isa. It's really depends on every situation, kung ano yung alam ng Lord na kaya nating i-handle at kung ano yung makabubuti sa atin.