Tips on dealing with MIL

Any tips on how to tell MIL not to kiss my baby without being too offensive? This MIL we had told her through SIL but she obviously disregarded what we said to her and purposely kissed my baby on his lips. I was so disgusted by her. Out of respect (even though she was disrespectful to our wishes but I don't want to stoop to her level), I want to tell her directly not to do it during our next visit but do not want to come across as rude. Appreciate any advice! Thanks!

11 Replies
undefined profile icon
Write a reply

I think I'd use expert opinion to put her in place. Something like "Mother, I know you like kissing baby, but the doctor strongly advised not to do so. For the well being of baby, we hope you can understand. Thanks!" And also, yes to all the replies advising to deliberately wipe baby's lips immediately after your MIL kisses on them, to show her via action. A good passive aggressive move! 🤣

Read more