Do you think there's a problem with your relationship or Marriage ?

What talking u? Relationship and marriage is the same thing. U are in a relationship therefore u came to a point in time that u want to be in a marriage which is a special relationship. Requires a lot of give and take and putting us before self. Rmbr the level of importance. Ur spouse first then ur kids then urself and everyone else. Ur spouse will be there before and after the kids left and technically forever. If u don't work on that relationship meant for eternity then "till death do us part" will be a goal unless u wana "tear face" and fight things out in court. Being kind to ur spouse is being kind to urself