Are there other couples here who live with their in-laws? What are your challenges and how do you deal with each?

I have a lot of relatives and friends who live with their in-laws. Most of them struggle due to a lot of differences. One major factor is the generation and culture of their in-laws which were always being compared to their current generation and culture. Their in-laws norms are also quite different from what they are used to now. One of my closest friends who still opt to live under the same roof with with her in-laws said that it is the amount of respect and patience (a lot of it) that she gives to her in-laws that makes her survive the daily miscommunication and tension.