Masama ba kung hindi mo gagamitin ang apelyido ng asawa mo?

I'm still using my family name. It's one of the things we discussed early on in our relationship along with other topics like adoption, finances etc My husband is okay with it and respects my decision to keep my name. A lot of comments here say that changing your surname is about submission to your husband. It's saddening that we still got that mindset to this modern day. Husbands and Wives should be PARTNERS. EQUAL dapat. :)