Uncertainty..

Just sharing thoughts because 1st can feel quite lonely at times with no to few people to talk to about the pregnancy since many don't know yet. Next routine scan at 14w, 6 weeks from my precious scan. Feeling uncertain how baby is doing since this is a vulnerable time with higher risk of loss. But got to wait for another 4 weeks, feels like forever! Wondering if I should tell my family only after the 14w scan to be on the safer side or at 12w when supppsedly im in 2nd tri. Haish.