My husband says i’m manipulating him

Don't be a nagger.. lalo na pag paulit ulit sinabi. ayaw nila ng ganon. don't control him.. pero mag paalala ka.. pagdating sa mga bagay na nakakapag pasaya sakanyan.. yes you can correct their bad habits sometimes but in a nice way.. isipin mo din baka sobrang pagod sa work as a reward to relived stress yun lang yung alam nya.. Your husband is growing and learning too.. ilang taon na ba kayong kasal? Marereliaze nya din yun on his own.. ganyan din asawa ko on our 1st year of married hinahayaan ko lang as long na kasama ako or he is updating me everytime and vc.. at nag babago sya every year, now he is more mature mas nakikinig na sakin. even tho hindi ko naman sya minamandohan sa mga vices nya and health pero nagpapaalala ako. But when it comes to decision making dapat dalawa kami lalo na if its about personal and finances but about vices idc as long na kilala ko mga kasama nya he is updating me (ldr kami he is working in manila)