For me, it is completely different. The love I have for my wife is a partnership love, us against the world type of love. For my daughter it is a protector and nurturing type of love. I would suffer for both of them but will suffer more, for my daughter because i know my wife is a capable woman.
Yes. My daughters are my lovers in my previous life whereas my wife is my lover in this life.☺They are equally important to me.