Sesi Tanya Pakar Bersama Kristy Yong (BS (PSYCH), M.Coun, Internationally Licensed Counsellor

Salam Sejahtera Semua Pengguna TAP! Antara perkara yang paling ditakuti oleh pasangan yang sudah pun berkahwin adalah apabila cinta pasangan mula hilang dan beralih arah. Lebih-lebih lagi apabila hadirnya cahaya mata, masa yang diluangkan bersama pasangan mungkin semakin berkurang. Kebanyakkan masa lebih tertumpu pada anak-anak dan bukan lagi pada pasangan. Pernah atau tidak anda terfikir mengapa cara anda tidak berkesan dalam membetulkan keadaan? Masih sama, tiada perubahan. Mungkin jalan penyelesaian anda tidak kena cara, atau ada cara yang lebih efektif yang perlu anda pelajari dan terapkan dalam rumahtangga. Untuk Sesi Tanya Pakar kali ini, ayuh minta pendapat dari Pakar kami. Tanya soalan anda tentang cara kekalkan keharmonian rumah tangga selepas ada anak bersama Kristy Yong (BS (PSYCH), M.Coun, Internationally Licensed Counsellor with Australian Counselling Association, Director of Oasis Counselling Services pada 23 Februari 2023, hari Khamis. *NOTA: Sebarang persoalan di luar daripada topik dan tarikh yang ditetapkan mungkin tidak akan dijawab atau dipadam terus.

Kristy

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Ms. Kristy, any tips to keep the harmony at home after having kids? I find it really hard since we have children.

Kristy

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Hi Nadia, thank you for your questions. There could be many reasons to why there is no harmony at home and each family is different. After having kids, the dynamic at home is really different too depending the age of your children and whether husband and wife is also carving time out to spend with one another during this busyness. In my opinion, relationship is very intentional, just like how when you and your husband were dating, the both of you will carve time out of the busy days to spend time with each other. Many couples forget to do that especially after the arrival of their little children because the attention is more on the children and giving the best for the children. Many of us forget that we cannot give what we dont have. We dont have love and peace, our children will not have that. So that intentional building of marriage and relationship with each other as well as with children is very important to keep the harmony in the house. Look at it as everyone of us have a love t

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