Paano mag-set ng boundaries sa in-laws and sa parents?

The best pa rin po talaga ang bumukod, nakakapagod ang makisama, kahit sa sarili mong magulang. Anyways, to answer your question, lots of patience and understanding po ang kailangan. Know that their unsolicited advices (aka pakikialam) are most probably coming from a place of love and concern. Pero it doesn't mean na susunod ka na lang sa lahat ng gusto nila. Proper communication is important. Share them your thoughts and educate them in a calm and kind way-- if this doesn't work, then know that being aggressive will not be effective either. IF YOU NEED TO CHOOSE BETWEEN BEING RIGHT OR BEING KIND, CHOOSE TO BE KIND. Of course you don't need to compromise what you believe to be right for your family but you have to BE FIRM WITHOUT BEING RUDE. In the end, if you really want a healthy relationship with them, it really just boils down to PAKIKISAMA-- kaya nakakapagod talaga.