Is it right to evolve a friendship with the opposite sex into a "close" one when married? To the point of chatting with him/her first thing when you wake you up in the morning and the last thing you do at night when you don't even do it with your spouse? I call that cheating. What do you think?

I understand why there is a close one, it happens when couple does not have sparks and tend to find it somewhere else. It definately is something that fits right into your needs. But i guess, it is still best to get it from your partner, recreate sparks and do things both you n him enjoy together