4 Day Old Baby

Recently just gave birth. My baby is 4 days old and he has not pooped for almost 2 days now. And most people are just telling me that I am not feeding enough even though I am dping it every 2 hours and even my husband just keeps pushing me to do more... I am so tired, exhausted and just so beaten down... just want to sit and cry Is this normal? I am breast feeding him and because my supply is not very good I was told by a lactation nurse to top up with a formula and so I did. My baby and I went for a check up on Monday and they took his blood for a jaundice check and he went crazy crying and screaming. I dont know what to do... I have been breastfeeding now for 4 days and my nipples are all sore and cracked and so I have gone to using hand expressions and breast pumps just to feed. Plus, yesterday my baby had some brick dust in the diaper... Anyone else going through this?

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Hi, it’s still very early on. My LO is now 3mths and I was like you so very exhausted plus i was a csect mummy. Every night I thought to myself that I want to give up breastfeeding because on top of being tired, it was really painful. And he wakes up so often (just as im about to fall asleep) and the process repeat. I was against feeding formula but caved in for 1-2 night feeds thru cup feeding as my supply have not kicked in and it truly helped baby to sleep longer plus better rest for us. Third wk, the supply was enough and until now i’m exclusively breastfeeding him. Similar to you, baby had to take blood and hr was crying murder and it made me cry. But it is to ensure they are safe so i hope you can have a positive mind for this. You can think of it as the first of many “pain” that he has to go through and you have to be a strong mama fr them. Find someone you can let your heart out to- husband, a close friend and tell them everything so u feel better. Breastfeeding the first few weeks is a painful process but from experience it gets a lot better. Both of you are still new to this so it takes time. Hang in there and I hope things get better!

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