First Bday

for me, thats totally fine and I think best for your husband and baby too. your baby will be celebrating a year older with his dad and mum. a perfect family picture when he gets old. if u really want to celebrate on the day of his/her bday, you can have a lil celebration aside the advance bday with dad. don't be too selfish with ur hubb, he'll be working away from you both to sustain your needs. hope this helps!