Please, share tips for having sex the first time after giving birth?

first up - keep the expectations really low and expect things to not work up as you may want....that will always help. make sure to put in time for foreplay as well as use lubes. the thing is, the first time after giving birth may be painful, or uncomfortable, so even if you are not able to reach climax or go till the end, try and enjoy the intimate time you spend, and do indulge in a lot of kissing and touching to make the hormones get back in place :)