Is up to individual. I do believe certain things to avoid but certain things I won't bother. My great grandma-in-law passed on when my wife was in 7 months pregnancy. My parents-in-law told us it was alright if we didn't want to be involved but we decided to follow through the whole process. Whether pantang or not, certain things have to do means have to do. This is my thought.
Oh. There was such myth in my home town too. I guess it only applies to physically attending. It's your sister, and it is zoom for the God of Love! 👉 Please leave a ❤ for my #tapmario photo contest. Thank you very much. https://community.theasianparent.com/booth/1209055?d=android&ct=b&share=true