Just need a place to rant. Now preggy with #2 at 33 wks so i dunno if its just me and my emotional hormones but this really got me upset. Very very upset. My in laws stays in JB and we rarely meet. But my #1 was admitted to hospital due to viral infection last wk but no one frm hubby's side came to visit. We have my BIL staying at our place (who contributes NOTHING) but he too dnt bother to show up at the hospital for the 3 days we were there nor help us with the chores while we stay at the hosp with #1. When we came home after discharge, the whole house was in a mess. Even till today, no signs of my in laws wanting to come to visit their sick grandchild. I really feel sad for my kids if this is how the other side of the family is. Oh, no one even bothered about my 2nd pregnancy either. I really dunno how to tell this to my hubby but i really want my BIL out. I didn't even agree to have him here for months now cos he initially said its for a few days only. I hv hinted to say that i didnt want anyone in the house after i hv given birth. Previously with #1, my younger BIL aged 10 was over at our place and i had to take care of him while caring for a newborn and trying to recover frm birth and my MIL dnt even bother to call him to come home! Im upset, angry n disappointed at how my in laws are. I dnt even wanna try to get close to them. So much so that i think im beginning to hate my hubby too. What should i do? ?