My wife talks about divorce and walking out over small fights. Should I just concede defeat?

definitely not just a small fight, when a women say divorce, that's means there is a lot of small small things combine, and make her very stress or what, u definitely can't find the answer and thats very common to guys. Buy something she love, like when me and my husband got fight, although we never talk to each other, but he will order food delivery for my favorite bubble tea, and from there to start the topic, calm down and talk to each other. If really not suitable, both of you are deserve happy life, not only happy marriage!

I think you and your wife seriously need to sit down and have a good heart2heart talk. Divorce isn't something to be taken off lightly, unlike BGR where they are no direct commitments. You're commited with her about your house, kids, car and even families. She may be unaware that bringing up divorce each time during a quarrel is a huge slap to the relationship, so it's best to quickly iron things out. Remember why you married each other and never ever go to sleep mad at one another.

You should try to sit down and talk heart-to-heart with you wife first to find out why she has these negative feelings on the marriage. If there isn't any solution, seek professional counselor's help. I would say divorce is the last solution. A marriage takes 2 parties to maintain and thus both sides have to make efforts.

I think there may be a deeper issue to resolve. Divorce is not a small thing, especially if you have children. Throwing that word out at the smallest arguments is not right. Do seek professional help if you need it as a couple. You can book an appointment here:http://scc.sg/eng/

That's giving up on your marriage too easily. I suggest marriage counselling as well. http://sg.theasianparent.com/5-signs-that-you-need-marriage-counseling/ Fei Yue: http://www.fycs.org/index.cfm?GPID=25

thanks