My 4 year old refuses to go to play school and cries every day when I leave him in playschool. Any tips to improve this??

My friend had to keep explaining to her daughter that playschool is just a few hours a day and that mummy will be back to fetch her in the evening. She kept stressing that to her daughter that it is because mummy and daddy had to work, so they had to put her in the play school. She also tells her that she can make friends and play fun stuff there. Still, tears are expected and my friend said one could only persevere through it so that the child could adapt. She suggests giving your child his comfort item (favourite toy) to bring along may help. She also said that she tries to keep her goodbyes short (as short as possible) and leaves after handling her child over to the teachers.

I think when it comes to leaving kids at playgroups, it's best not to make sure a scene at the goodbye. Before, what I did was to wait for hee to stay mingling and playing with other kids before slipping away. She didn't seem to even realized I was gone. On days that I do hug and kiss her goodbye, I realized that she gets clingy and frustrated and would ask me to stay and watch her. It also helps if your child is friendly. My daughter is such a social butterfly so it takes her less than 3 minutes to make friends. This I attribute to her many countless playgym sessions when she was younger and was able to play with other same age babies.

My daugther feels heavy to say byebye to me each day when she goes up to school bus. For me, I just acknowledge her feelings that she misses me and I miss her too. Like adult, when our husband goes overseas for work we will feel the same way too. Unless you feel that there was something happened in school and causing her not wanting to go to school, you should talk to her teachers to understand what is going on or has happened e.g. bullies etc. For my daugther I know she is very happy and enjoys her school and thus, I know she just feel hard to say byebye to us.

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