Mums, what is the longest gap you would have from your last child to your next? I have a 12 yr-old. The gap seems way too big for me to have another baby now. Any opinion on this?

It will be fantastic! My youngest sis and her brother are 12 years old apart. Whenevr she has teen problems, she goes to him first since he is matured enough to help her and she trusts him a lot (something that parents sometimes struggle with teenagers, right?) so the older one can keep an eye and ensure his sibling is ok and that is a big help for parents :)