37 weeks and dilemma

Hi mummies I am FTM I am not sure if i want to go for natural delivery or c sect, my constipation today i think made small tear near my anus it’s sting when kena water. If a hard poop can make the skin tear easily then isnt the childbirth will make me tear even more to the point reach 3rd or 4th degree? 🙁 I know i have to decide asap but c sect ppl say recovery is slower😵‍💫

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not sure if its due to gynae or individuals. friends who went for c sect : some told me no pain from 2nd day for all her 3 births , some told me super painful and will opt for natural if possible heard gynae stitching skills helps too my gynae is pro natural so I just went with it. i was able to walk to the toilet to poop without any help or pain about 2-3hrs after giving birth. no pain when pee, poop or sit even after not taking any painkillers the 2nd day

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