I'm a new 2 under 2 mum with a 19mo and a 1mo. Can't seem to find a community of 2u2 parents in SG specifically to share ideas, advice and learn from, so started one on FB. I'm sure you have a wealth of experience now after 2 years. Would you mind connecting with us on FB and perhaps sharing your experience where relevant? https://www.facebook.com/groups/265320065312254/?ref=share
Congrats on number 2! i think whats is most important now is to train number 1 to be more independent. So u will be "less" busier when number 2 comes. Put him on schdule and try to train him to sleep him or herself.
Yes must train first one to sleep on his own