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hello mummies.. Im 23 this year and Ive been married for 1yr plus and Ive a bb girl who is a Yr old.recently Ive been feeling like Ive married too soon, I dont regret having my daughter. is my husband and his family thats an issue. my husband makes me feel as though oh marry alr can take u for granted bc u cannot leave kind of vibe. he always raise his voice when he speak to me. doesnt spend much time with me nor baby, he always let his mom tc. his parents also too much..they werent happy I brought baby back to my parents place to stay.. my in laws wants things done their way and like as if I cannot ren my own family like my husband family must always come first. there were a few times I thought of divorce bc Im rly not happy. I tried to tolerate but everyone also got limit right? what should I do?dont advice things like talk to your husband. bc TRUST ME Ive tried MANY TIMES. so many heart to heart talks till I cried and told him Im rly not happy. and he never change.. he dont help me communicate with his family.. Im worried financially and custody of my baby girl..

Anonymous · Answer

Hello! I am 24 this year and I got divorced too. It was a short gun marriage. My lo is 16 months now. Yes my ex husband was always taking advantage of me too. He even cheated while we were still together. It became to a bad extend that he was abusing my boy too. That was the last straw for me. I took my bag and left the house. He tried to snatch the custody of our son but I eventually won the sole custody after providing them with various evidence of his abuse. It is definitely not easy. I’m working. My son goes to childcare. I’m with my parents now. They are not well to do. My parents are only hawker. But we are giving our best to my son. And that is all that matters. I wish you all the best! 😊 Do you want to exchange contact? I’ll be more than willing to! Young mums are never easy!