For my first baby I had a confinement lady which went thru what you all went thru but I bath quietly without her knowledge if not she's nags. I'm ok as long she can takecare my Baby but she can't- alwiz make my baby reflux and vomit coz over feeding. Her cooking not fantastic either.
In the end, I took over. Wasted money to pay her wages and not cheap $2.7k.
For my second baby, we don't want any confinement lady or help from others; we do our own although very tiring but no commotion.
1. I ordered confinement food which is good - daily red dates longan tea and meals with soup
2. TCM herbs soup for 30days - slow cook
3. Bath Herbal from TCM
It's works for me but same time taking care of two rather tiring ( 1 1/2 yrs old and a newborn) ; just a short period of time - endure. All the best to you and congrats
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