Just a thought. Engage your toddler also to love the expected baby and help you take care. Communicate to your toddler and explain things as if he/she can understand because surely he will do. You can take care of both because Almighty wont give you the next baby if you cant. Just always do your best and be concious that your responsibility should be equally distributed. Instinct will always come to the rescue. Basta kung ano ang tama, go for it. Mom's power is inconceivable that only Almighty knows.