Which will you prefer - work related

Hello mommies! I am currently employed in a fintech company. The pay is good as well as the benefits. The only things that stresses me out is yung workmates and boss ko. I've been working since 2017 and this is my first time to encouter such people na malakas mangpower trip at mag call out in front of everyone. Whether work related or not ikaw at ikaw ang tampulan nila. Kakagaling ko lang from pregnancy loss and I would like to have a fresh start with healthy working environment na sana. If you were in my position. Would you rather have low-mid pay pero healthy environment and professional people ksama. Or rather stay in this kind of set up na araw araw nalang may masasabi at masasabi sayo. Ps. In order to get along with them dapat gayahin mo sila at ugali nila. Which is not align with my values as they don't practice politeness and respect even outside. Thank you

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Para sakin, if you have that luxury to choose a lower paying job that can give you a peace of mind, then go ahead. A happy, healthy, non-toxic working environment exist and they are not that rare. Marami na akong napasukang company, and it's for my own personal reasons bakit ako nagreresign. I'm so blessed na once lang ako nagresign dahil sa toxic workmate (my manager). 7 out of 8 companies na napasukan ko, hindi toxic ang mga tao. And in that one company with the toxic manager, sobrang hindi worth sacrificing my mental health, kahit na it's my dream job that I'm most passionate about. No workplace is perfect, tama, and you need to adjust and adopt kahit saang company. But just as in a relationship, ibang usapan na if you're with a toxic person. Same with work, hindi dapat magstay kapag alam mong toxic na talaga. So if you can afford the pay cut, I highly recommend that you go. 🤗

Magbasa pa
3y ago

We can't really be sure which decision will have the better outcome but as long as you made the decision believing it was for the best for you at the moment, then you'll have zero to little regrets whatever happens ☺️ Good luck, mommy! 🤗

Ask yourself din kung hanggang saan ang limit mo or if lumipat ka sasapat ba ang income mo/niyo? If we're being practical, a high-paying job is already a blessing kasi mahirap ang buhay ngayon. But then, if masyado na unhealthy to the point you dread going to work, then take a break. Malay mo makahanap ka ng high-paying, and at the same time, healthy work environment. Mental health is as important as physical health ❤️ PS: I also suffered from pregnancy loss, and one of the things I'm grateful for is my work because they allowed me to heal as long as I needed.

Magbasa pa
3y ago

Tama po yan, always protect your mental health. Good luck, mommy 🤗 Ano po ba line of work mo? You can try din maghanap ng work from home jobs. Marami na din nag-ooffer niyan with high compensation. Sana makahanap ka po agad. Good health sa'yo and kay baby mo ❤️

Kung ako sis at afford naman namin ang mabuhay kahit low-mid pay ang nakukuha ko, I would rather change my employer nalang, dun sa mas masaya ako at may peace of mind. Sabi kasi nila ang work kahit mahirap matitiis mo, pero yung ugali ng mga kasama mo sa work hindi. Then if there comes a better opportunity ulit na better pay, edi lipat nalang ulit. Take ko lang to 😁

Magbasa pa
3y ago

thank you mommy. sana nga makahanap na ako. 🥹

For me, kahit saan workplace may toxicity nman talaga. To cope with the environment, control how you react like wag ka mgpapaapekto sa mga sinasabi ng ibang tao, mgpakabingi/mgpakabulag ka as long as hindi ka tinatapakan (if tapakan ka tapakan mo rin yung iba kasi nasasanay kung hindi ka pumapalag, wag ka mgpabully pero hanggat makakaya ignore nlang)

Magbasa pa
3y ago

thank you mommy. sana nga makahanap na ako. 🥹

for me those kind of people.are everywhere kahit lumipat ka sa ibang company, just ignore them or report them to your hr donts stress.out yourself to them sdont waste your tenurity on.the company just because of those people na walang manners kase pag alam nilang naiinis ka sakanila or the more na papansinin mo sila mas lalo ka pa nilang ipapower trip

Magbasa pa
3y ago

sadly the company itself is ganun na and kahit magreach out ako sa upper.management or HR walang mangyayare. since kaya nila yung ibang dept and feeling nila they all have the means and power to do so since sila ang pinakavaluable/core ng company. tried to ignore them pero hindi kaya, kinain ako.mg stress and anxiety kaya pinili.ko.nalang humanap ng better and hopefully healthy environment. 🥹

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Same sa previous company ko, then I decided to resign naghanap ako ng wfh luckily meron. Then I found out I'm pregnant again. Sometimes my toxic pero sa new work ko, sobrang ganda ng flow namin ng mga tao ko. Minimal ang toxic since lahat pasenior na at mga seniors na yung iba. Kaya maalaga sila sa mga within 30's.

Magbasa pa

Ako nun may ka-work na feeling tagapagmana,malapit sa boss tapos may pagkasipsip. Gusto sya lang ang may increase sa sahod. Ayun,onti onti kami nag-alisan. Di nagtagal pati sya umalis na din. Nakakatamad magtrabaho pag ganyan mga kasama mo sa work,kahit anong gawin mong pag-iwas maaapektohan ka padin.

Magbasa pa
3y ago

agree ako dito. kahit anong iwas mo kung pagtitripan ka, pagtitripan ka.

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dun k s mgkkroon ka ng peace of mind.. kc if your not the type n strong ang personality d k ttgal jan... gngwa nila yan kc alm nila d m sila papalagan mkkhnap dn sila ng mkktapat nila. pero bago k umalis jan try m kya pumalag isang beses mkbawi man lng s pngggwa nila. sbay resign.

Nangyari na din sakin yan mii and I choose to resign. After ko mag resign honestly mahirap mag apply pero nung na hire na ko mas magaan na sa pakiramdam. Di kase maganda na stress ka na nga sa work and so many things dadagdag pa mga ka work mo na walang empathy.

3y ago

true to mommy. iba kasi pag stress sa work bearable. pero pag tao na usapan grabe kumain ng stress. pag nagtatry naman ako mag open sa ka close ko or sa fam members. sabihing hyaan. pano hahayaan ako ung affected pati performance ko. 🥹

VIP Member

Same scenario, boss ko naman nagpopower trip to the point ma super stress na ko at kung nagkakasakit na. Parang nagkakaron ndin ako noon ng anxiety, kaya nagresign ako. Kc di na sya healthy physically, mentally and emotionally

3y ago

ganito nangyare sakin mommy. ngayon lang ako nagkalakas ng loob na mag apply ulit sa iba at soon magpapasa na ako mg resignation dahil hindi ko na talaga sila kaya pagpasensyahan.