Don't know what to do...

Hi, Mommies. I am 29 y.o., single, still living with my parents, but I have a stable job. My ex boyfriend just broke up with me 2 days ago, because according to him, he is still in love with his ex. The thing is, I still don't know if I am preggy or not. My last menstrual cycle was last March 26-30 and we had contact on the 9th of April, which is according to my period tracker, it is the date where I have a high chance to get pregnant. If one day I found out that I am pregnant, sasabihin ko ba sa kanya? Well, eventually naman, he will find out din kasi same company lang kami natatrabaho, with his father. And how to tell this to my parents? I will surely hurt them, esp. I am their bunso. I know it is early pa na problemahin to because I am not sure yet if I am really pregnant. Pero gusto ko lang kasi i-ready ang sarili ko. Thank you sa mga sasagot.

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dear, try mo mag PT after 3weeks or a month. Now, if maging positive nga, need mo na magpakatatag dahil andun lahat ng possibilities like maduwag c ex mo at takbuhan ka, and of course ung galit ng parents (although sa umpisa lang yan). ipakita mo lang na babangon ka, for sure andyan sila para sayo. pls, dont think of harming the child. nangyari to for sure may plan para sayo.. stay put ka muna ngaun. if ever negative man ang PT, I hope ud be more careful. mahirap mapunta sa magulong situation pag buntis ka. P.S. nauna na ako sa mgulong kalagayan and i tell u, hindi masaya..

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Anonymous

5y ago

Never din naman pong pumasok sa isip ko to harm the baby in case man na buntis ako. Thank you for answering

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girl whatsoever happen please be courageous. Mataas ang chance na hindi nya i-claim if ever na confirmed. You have a stable job so it means kaya mo kahit wala, at don't worry kung iniisip mong madidisappoint mo parents mo, nah, 29 ka na tanggap na nila yan pero somehow magagalit pa ren dahil wala na kayo ng tatay ni baby pero makakadamay mo pa rin sila. Anak ka nila so hindi ka nila matatakwil noh. Mga makikitid na utak na magulang lang ang kayang tumakwil ng anak

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Anonymous

5y ago

Thank you for your encouragement. Buti na lang nakita ko ang app na to, navent out ko yung worries ko. And may mga nag aadvice kahit hindi ako kilala. Thank you

sa ngaun sis,dont stress yourself on the thing na hindi pa sure. and if magpositive nga, its his right para malaman.sa parents mo naman, right din nilang malaman.sa una magagalit sila, pero pag nakita na nila apo nila, super mamahalin nila.pero sabi ko nga, hwag nuna masyado advance mag.isip. pray lang sis and everything will be ok.

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Anonymous

5y ago

The other part of me wanted to have a baby na din naman po kasi. Actullay, we planned na magbuntis po talaga ako, kaso ewan ko bakit sya nakipaghiwalay. Thank you for answering

Try mo mag PT and if it's positive buhayin mo baby, marami dian ang mga gustong magkaanak pero hirap mgkaanak. Wag mo na alalahanin disappointments ng family mo kasi sa una lang naman yan and the baby is still a Blessing. Hayaan mo na exbf mo, kung malaman man nia siempre kayo nalang dalawa mkakapag usap dian. Basta keep the baby.

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Anonymous

5y ago

I will keep the baby po, no matter what. Thank you

have courage and power to tell him sis since right nyang malaman un at right mo din ipagpaalam un sa knya kasi sya ang tatay. if he would not.take responsibilty for it, bahala sya. kawalan nya un

Anonymous

5y ago

In case man na buntis ako, his parents would be very happy. Kasi matagal na silang nanghihingi ng apo from us. Pero sana nga lang malinawan ang utak ng anak nila. Thank you for giving some advices.

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Wag ka muna masyadong mag worry kasi di pa naman sure. By the time na confirm mu na, kausapin mu na lang ang parents mu! Just be ready sa sasabihin nila, normal reaction lang yun 💞

Anonymous

5y ago

I know po na it's still too early para problemahin to. May be I am still too emotional dahil kakahiwalay lang namin kaya kung anu anu pumapasok sa utak ko. Thank you for answering

sabihin mo sa magulang mo Kung ano nangyayari sayo kasi at the end sila din makakatulong sayo. tska may stable job ka Naman so Hindi mo na siya kelangan.

Anonymous

5y ago

I don't need him but my baby needs a father, in case man na buntis ako. Thank you for lending me some of you time.

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