stranger anxiety and separation anxiety by 4 mos

Hi, mommies anybody here experience this my baby whose going to be 5 mos. Will cry when somebody else holding like relatives and when I leave he is quite a good boy. Even his sister he will fuss when they carry him, only me his papa and one of his uncle he doesn't cry

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Super Mum

Hey mama, it’s perfectly normal. This could be signs of a secure attachment forming and it’s possible for baby to form this with more than one person. From personal experience, babies form attachments with individuals who respond to their cries and basic needs the quickest. More information here: https://www.babybonus.msf.gov.sg/parentingresources/web/Babies/BabiesDevelopment/BabiesBonding/Babies_Attachment?_afrLoop=48163426739663745&_afrWindowMode=0&_afrWindowId=null#%40%3F_afrWindowId%3Dnull%26_afrLoop%3D48163426739663745%26_afrWindowMode%3D0%26_adf.ctrl-state%3Dkxscby7ak_4 It simply means baby feels safe around the people you mentioned and with others he’s not too sure just yet. Just as we may not be so quick to open up to a new acquaintance, it’s the same with babies :)

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3y ago

Thank u so much as I felt they blaming me for this