My in-laws always bad mouth my parenting style...

Mom, I just need to vent a bit... Why does my mother-in-law always make hurtful comments about everything I do for my child? She always seems to belittle and... well, suggest strange things. For example, from the moment my child was born, I didn't want to swaddle them too tightly. She used to get angry and say I didn't love my child, that their legs would become crooked... When my baby was around 3 or 4 months old, she insisted on giving my baby honey on their lips because she said their lips were dry... I clearly didn't allow it and got angry at her. But she said I was a cruel daughter-in-law and mother, and she would tell other relatives that I'm old-fashioned and weird. Isn't she the old-fashioned one? Now that my child has started eating solid food... she always criticizes the meals I cook. If my child doesn't want to eat, she says, "Well, who would want to eat that, it looks disgusting." Oh, I can't take it anymore...

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Hey there, I totally understand how frustrating and hurtful it can be when your mother-in-law constantly criticizes your parenting style. It's tough to deal with someone constantly belittling your choices, especially when it comes to raising your own child. First of all, please know that you are not alone in this. Many mothers go through similar situations with their in-laws. It's important to remember that you are the parent, and you know what's best for your child. Trust your instincts and don't let anyone make you doubt yourself. When it comes to dealing with your mother-in-law, it might help to have an open and honest conversation with her. Let her know how her comments make you feel and set some boundaries. It's okay to stand up for yourself and your parenting decisions. If she continues to criticize and belittle you, it's okay to distance yourself from her negativity. Surround yourself with supportive people who uplift and encourage you as a parent. As for the swaddling, feeding, and mealtime issues, stick to what you believe is best for your child. You are the one spending every day with your little one, so you know their needs better than anyone else. Remember, you're doing an amazing job as a mother, and don't let anyone make you feel otherwise. Stay strong and keep doing what you feel is right for your child. Sending you lots of positive vibes! https://invl.io/cll6she

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