Mil and husband

My mil nowadays keeping trying to find trouble with me. Whatever I buy things for my lo she will say something and than make my husband unhappy and keep telling my husband this and this. Since my fil passed away she keep telling my husband to 'be her husband ' ever since than I don't even have the chance to hold my husband hand. Whenever we go out she follow. Everything also dun want to do. Always disturb my lo, since she can go down buy coffee for herself why can't she buy her own food. She is 60 . My husband will scold me whenever she talk bad about me. My husband used to love me alot but now no more. What can I do??????

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My MIL made my husband go back to her house and stay overnight for 3 days a week after the first month of our marriage. I get it that she wasn't well during that period, but we could've made other arrangements like visiting or buying her dinner everyday. As much as i think she cant let go of her son, my friend also reminded me that after all they're mother and son - who are we to question that bond. After the arrival of my LO, she also gets jealous all the time. I have already gone from being angry and frustrated to just ignore her. I respect her as someone older, that's all. That makes things easier and me happier.

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