My mil dotes on her grandkids, but she always seems to compare my kids to her other grandkids.
I don't want my kids to grow up feeling distant from their cousins cause of this comparing thing.
Eg, she'll ask my kid to recite abcd, who's only 16 months, whereas her other grandkid is already over 2 years old.
I don't know how to approach this topic with my husband tactfully. He'll always brush it off by saying it's normal. #advice please